Every bride dreams of the perfect wedding. But once the big day is over? That’s when the real wisdom kicks in.
We asked our community of over 100,000 Aussie brides what they wish they’d done differently—and what they’re so glad they did. Their answers? Honest, heartfelt, and full of priceless advice for anyone planning a beautiful wedding on a budget.
Here are the top takeaways to save you stress, money, and a few late-night meltdowns.
1. “I wish I’d booked the photographer earlier.”
Good ones book out fast—sometimes a year or more in advance. Don’t wait until the last few months and settle for someone you’re not excited about. This is the person capturing your once-in-a-lifetime moments. Worth every cent.
2. “I wish I didn’t worry about pleasing everyone.”
From seating charts to song choices, trying to make everyone happy is impossible—and exhausting. The couples who felt best afterward? They made decisions based on what felt right for them.
3. “I wish I hired a coordinator—even just for the day.”
So many brides said they were so glad they didn’t spend their wedding worrying about logistics. If a full planner is out of budget, consider hiring someone just for the day. You’ll enjoy every moment more.
4. “I wish I had a better emergency kit.”
Bandaids. Bobby pins. Safety pins. Painkillers. A mini sewing kit. Snacks. One bride said, “I didn’t eat all day and nearly passed out in my dress.” Lesson learned.
5. “I’m so glad I kept the guest list small.”
A lean list = more budget per guest, more time with the people you love most, and less stress. You don’t need to invite your mum’s old coworker. Truly.
6. “I’m so glad I chose 2–3 wow moments and let the rest go.”
A stunning dress. A magical first dance. A breathtaking ceremony spot. Focus your energy (and budget) on just a few “wow” factors. Let everything else be simple.
7. “I wish I let go and had fun.”
The best weddings are the ones where the couple is glowing with joy—not panicking about centrepieces or running 15 minutes behind.
Your wedding will be imperfect. And it will still be perfect.
So take a breath, trust yourself, and plan for joy—not just aesthetics.
Want more real bride stories?
Join our Under $15k Beautiful Weddings Australia group for support, inspo, and honest advice from couples who’ve done it all before.
